When we consider how we love and honor women, we find that it serves as a powerful reflection of a man’s character. This respect not only demonstrates our regard for the women in our lives but also for God and His creation. As men, it is essential that we lead by example in our relationships and interactions.

It’s important to recognize that it is foolish and unwise for one to believe that unrighteous love can somehow protect or preserve what was once sweet. Over time, what begins as a beautiful expression can easily turn bitter, sour, or completely devoid of sweetness if not nurtured with true respect and integrity.

Over the years, her husband, the man to whom she had entrusted her heart—the one she believed would guard her soul and serve as her confidant—often expressed a desire to distance himself from the responsibilities he had once vowed to uphold in their marriage. As I braced myself for the challenging journey leading up to my mother’s passing, these conversations became increasingly frequent and painfully clear. His infidelities and wavering intentions bore heavily on my mind, prompting my wife and me to take action. We sought legal advice for my mother, who was living in an assisted living facility during that incredibly challenging final year of her life. It was a time filled with heartbreak, but also a resolve to advocate for her well-being and dignity.

I vividly remember the pressure I felt during that time. I was not only concerned for my mom’s health and well-being but also juggling the stress of ensuring she received the care she deserved, while the man she once entrusted her heart to continued to make plans of his own. As my mother faced the end of her life, it was heart-wrenching to witness as her patient proxy advocate; and as I reflect upon the story behind this writing, I can’t help but recall how this year tested me like no other, as I fought tirelessly to safeguard her best interests, all while grappling with my own health and well-being.

Despite the challenges, I take solace in knowing that I was there for her, just as she had always been there for me throughout my life. It was an honor to stand by her side during such a trying time, and I am grateful for the opportunity to be her voice when she needed it most.

When faced with challenges involving others, it’s important to walk away and not look back. The internal struggles that others express externally often stem from their lack of self-governance and self-discipline, and it’s essential to recognize that these issues are not yours to resolve. Accountability and responsibility are fundamental attributes of moral character, reflecting one’s capacity for growth, maturity, and change. Acknowledging this can help you maintain your own well-being while allowing others the space to work through their personal dilemmas.

This grave transformational truth has become of great importance to me as I have grown while grieving the loss of my mother, and it has profoundly helped me to recognize when it is best to move on in solace and in the best interest of my own well-being.